First, I must pre-disqualify myself as a relationship expert. I’m not a marriage therapist nor do I pretend everything is perfect in mine. Mark and my relationship is a work in progress, and I’m only sharing a few things that helped us re-connect recently. My hope is to keep you from having to save your marriage, It’s OK. Be intentional with truly hearing your spouse. Whether they’re telling you a story you’ve heard a hundred times, they’re sharing something that seems trivial, or they’re sharing something that may be difficult to hear, commit to being the best listener you can be. 2. Be vulnerable. Your spouse is your closest 1. Admit Your Mistakes. Everyone makes mistakes, and admitting them is essential for the integrity of your relationship. Experts say that the first
Falling Out of Love? Four Ways to Reconnect with Your Partner
The first step for newlyweds? Revel in your exclusivity. You want to be together, just the two of you, so give yourselves permission to cocoon. Then Here are some amazing tips for you and your partner after the kids join the family: 1. Don’t obsess over expectations. Pregnancy and parenting have many ups and downs. For new parents especially, these new experiences can take a toll on your relationship. When you have high expectations and do not take some Apologize and Forgive. Sincere apologies hold the potential to mend bridges. If you played a role in the break, express your regrets genuinely. At the same time, be open to forgiving the other SUSAN JOHNSON. WHY RECONNECT AGAIN? Even though we now have more ways than ever to communicate and connect, most relationships struggle, and
8 Ways to Reconnect and Strengthen Your Relationship
Connection is based on communication. In order to reconnect with your husband, there are five different levels of communication: cliches, facts, opinions, feelings, needs. We can share facts about our day–“It was so busy today, the last client didn’t leave until , and I didn’t think I was going to get out of 2. These first impressions are still there, rediscover them. To rekindle that friendship and be friends with your spouse again, look for these long-buried qualities. Try and “catch” your spouse when he displays one or more of them and let him know you’ve remarked on it. If he still makes you laugh after all these years, First, focus on nourishing the friendship of your relationship. Then, engage in plenty of nonsexual, physical affection. Next, resume sensual touching. Four Ways to Reconnect with Your Partner. By. Darina Alban., Counselor. k Reads. Updated: 20 Jun, Ask questions to find out—not